tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post5131107158312370536..comments2023-10-26T09:29:51.239-04:00Comments on Babies, Books, and Beyond: My Grandmother SucksMamaMunkyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09882954920258069443noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-88875892765801305172011-08-04T15:50:32.823-04:002011-08-04T15:50:32.823-04:00That's pretty much the decision I came too. Ev...That's pretty much the decision I came too. Even if I did tell her how I felt, it wouldn't make a difference. Since she lives in Florida now I only have to see her maybe once a year. She never calls me so I don't even have to talk to her. It sucks that it has to be that way, but oh well. I have other people in my life who are wonderful and worth my time.MamaMunkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09882954920258069443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-15688707301188543322011-08-04T15:46:47.662-04:002011-08-04T15:46:47.662-04:00LOL, you sound A LOT like me. Yes, you sound craz...LOL, you sound A LOT like me. Yes, you sound crazy and irrational. However, like think it's totally justified. I honestly don't think it would make a difference if you say something to her or not. People like her will never change and are just a waste of your time.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01937832344638772875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-40137448836823091662011-08-04T09:02:14.933-04:002011-08-04T09:02:14.933-04:00Thanks Lola. The problem with talking to her is th...Thanks Lola. The problem with talking to her is that while she's not mean and horrible, she IS the most selfish person on the planet. I'm not just saying that, she is literally the most selfish person I have ever met. It is almost impossible to have a conversation with her because the entire conversation becomes ABOUT her. I think I'm just going to let things go and continue to only MamaMunkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09882954920258069443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-91584427135907954662011-08-04T01:58:13.051-04:002011-08-04T01:58:13.051-04:00I think you are being a little irrational. We all...I think you are being a little irrational. We all get that way when we are hurt by people that are or should be close to us. My advice is to write the letter but never send it. I think you should talk to her in person, but really think about what to say.<br /><br />My recommendation for having a constructive conversation is to not make threats, (like keeping your child out of her life), and Anihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16992521702289342207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-76537142997879789092011-07-31T21:31:42.908-04:002011-07-31T21:31:42.908-04:00Thanks for sharing your opinion Amber. I think tha...Thanks for sharing your opinion Amber. I think that is a great idea to write the letter and then sit on it for a few days. At this point, I honestly don't think it would bother me to have her out of my life. We aren't close at all because of the way she's been towards me my whole life.MamaMunkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09882954920258069443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7133072827784679833.post-18569545782763134542011-07-31T21:01:58.917-04:002011-07-31T21:01:58.917-04:00I can definitely understand how you're feeling...I can definitely understand how you're feeling and I think you're justified for it. It seems like she's going out of her way to show you how much more regard she has for Amanda than she does for you.<br /><br />My opinion (which may or may not mean much)is to write the letter to her, then let it sit for a day or two and look at it again with new eyes. I don't think you want her Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09129384218059282430noreply@blogger.com